Shon Mehta

"A good relationship is not a refuge from your problems, but an oasis where you can grow better as a person." Before getting into a relationship, make sure that you are in the right frame of mind. If you expect your future partner to come with some kind of magic and make everything better for you, you are not ready for the relationship. ----- "Fall in love with a person, not with your idea of that person." Compatibility and communication is very important. Be open about yourself -- your likes and dislikes, your ideas about the kind of life you want. Don't try to be someone else just to be in a relationship. It never ends well. ---- "When someone else's happiness becomes the prerequisite of your happiness, you know that you are in love." Sometimes we confuse infatuation with love. When we are infatuated, we don't care about the person -- we only care about our own emotional rush. Before thinking that you have fallen in love wi...